Friendship sometimes dies

     Imagine, you know person from early ages. You spend a lot of time together. You have similar interests and views. And some day your friend is no longer part of your life.

     There are many different circumstances when friendship comes to the end. I am going to focus on few of them, which I divide into groups: a conflict of interests in business, a group of various feelings between friends and simply physical distance. So what exactly can destroy friendship?

     My first group combines conflict of interests in business. Somebody said: "never do business with family or friends". Growing up together friends have many similarities in how to make a carrier. In this case they try to connect friendship and business because friends trust each other. Usually it does not work. Friends might come to one decision in serious questions, but  they might have a radically different point of view in a simple choice. And this can affect the relationship in negative way. Mutual business has a point of contact of money, which not always can be desided fairly. Soon or late it will lead to the collapse of the friendship.

     The second group I describe as a group of negative feelings: envy, jelousy. There's nothing in this world so sweet as love. And next to love the sweetest thing is hate. Love and hate are very close in this case. Friends in childgood dont need things to think about, playing together is quite enough. Adults have developed sense of competition. It causes of an emergence of negative senses. Envy appears for any reason in any situations. Even because of  love to a woman or love to one woman. Love can easily grow into hate. 

     And finally distanse beetween friends can make them physically unattainable. Here I can bring myself as an example. Most of my friends live in Russia and right now I have a contact with a few of them. But here, in the USA I can understand who is my real friend. Time arranges everything.      

We dont choose friends. We accept friendship. Friendship is very fragile. We can loose our friends if we will not treasure them. In Russia we say: "Dont have 100$, have 100 friends". You can imagine what it will give you instead.